I once read that we hold bigger celebrations on holidays in the winter to help break up the cold, dark days and make the time before spring pass more quickly. Whatever the reasons, these holidays came to represent particularly big ideas and things. At the same time, the festivities increased in scope until they decorated every home in the neighborhood and every aisle in the supermarket.
Thanksgiving is not just the anniversary of a harvest that Native Americans shared with settlers, but a time for gratitude and patriotism; Christmas is not just about Jesus Christ’s birthday (according to secondary sources anyways) but giving generously to one another; Valentine’s Day is not really connected to the Catholic saint anymore and is mostly about affirming commitments to love.
All these holidays have their own traditions that every family and household is supposed to take part in. Most people end up setting up a Christmas tree, or at least some garland and lights, bring a dish to Christmas dinner, and open presents under the tree. I do all these things too.
